i got a lot of plants from ikea. i've never had plants before. i moved away from all my friends and now i have all these plants. i named them all after friends i left. slowly my plants are biting the dust. am i killing my friends? 2 of them got married at the garfield conservatory in chicago, midwest. and i got some tiny plants to celebrate. 1 of those is a teeny little cactus plant. i don't even think it needs water. they call that there resiliency.